A Manifesto for Overcoming a Smear Campaign

A Lesson from Jeremiah about Racing Against Horses

By: White Dove

To love God with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength during the normal times is a good thing. To love him with the same passion (or more) when it seems the whole world stands opposed to you, is a whole different level of passion.

There's a "giving it all" level of faith that Jeremiah and David have bequeathed to me, through their ancient writing. They are heart scribes, and I can relate to the questions and prayers that bare their souls.

Jeremiah saw all the evil going on behind closed doors in the temple, among the faith leaders, and in government. He saw the upcoming consequences, even though at the time it seemed God was silent and aloof. But Jeremiah saw ahead; he knew what was coming… times of starvation, death, and defeat. He was having a little pity party when God interjected with a question:

"If you have run with footmen and they have tired you out, then how can you compete with horses? If you fall down in a land of peace, how will you do in the thicket of the Jordan?

'For even your brothers and the household of your father, even they have dealt treacherously with you, even they have cried aloud after you. Do not believe them, although they may say nice things to you.'… — Jeremiah 12:5-6

Would you have wanted to hang around someone like Jeremiah? No one likes someone who's rocking the boat. Most of us don't like bad news, especially if there's so much good happening around you that you can easily let it fall to the back of your mind, or better yet, bury it.

Jeremiah exposed the sociopaths in government and in church. His objective was to save lives… knowing that if only the good people would WAKE UP and TURN THE TIDE OF EVIL (because light always trumps darkness), his country could avoid death, starvation, and enormous dire consequences.

Most of the prophets lived lives of intrigue, danger, and much opposition, not just Jeremiah. David was another one.

David – the man God claimed was "a man after His own heart" – made the very same complaints as Jeremiah, who asked God, "Why are the wicked so prosperous? Why are evil people so happy? You have planted them, and they have taken root and prospered. Your name is on their lips, but in their hearts they give you no credit at all… (Jeremiah 12, NLT).

David, who was being chased by a sociopathic leader intent on murdering him, sensed God's reply, in Psalm 73, NLT: "Their present life is only a dream that is gone when they awake. When you arise, O Lord, you will make them vanish from this life… Whom have I in heaven but you? I desire you more than anything on earth. My health may fail, and my spirit may grow weak, but God remains the strength of my heart; he is mine forever…."

Psalm 73 has been one of my favorite psalms for many years. And then there's Micah, too, who helped me to formulate a "manifesto" – a short declaration – that has helped me to keep racing, even against the horses – to keep going, beyond my own ability to endure.

It's a prayer penned by Micah for those of us surrounded by sociopaths diguised as "good people" – even Christian leaders and spouses, who only want us dead because we see behind the churchy disguise.

A manifesto:

"As for me, I look to the Lord for his help. I wait confidently for God to save me, and my God will certainly hear me. Do not gloat over me, my enemies! For though I fall, I will rise again. Though I sit in darkness, the LORD himself will be my light. I will be patient as the LORD punishes me, for I have sinned against him. But after that, he will take up my case and punish my enemies for all the evil they have done to me. The LORD will bring me out of my darkness into the light, and I will see his righteousness. Then my enemies willl see that the LORD is on my side. They will be ashamed that they taunted me, saying, 'Where is the LORD – that God of yours?' With my own eyes I will see them trampled down like mud in the streets." – Micah 7 NLT.

Micah's prayer comes right after his admonition: "Don't trust anyone – not your best friend or even your wife! … Your enemies will be right in your own household".

We are not to think the same way most people think.

Isaiah (in chapter 8) said, "The LORD has said to me in the strongest terms: 'Do not think like everyone else does. Do not be afraid that some plan conceived behind closed doors will be the end of you. Do not fear anything except the LORD Almighty. He alone is the Holy One. If you fear him, you need fear nothing else. He will keep you safe. But to Israel and Judah he will be a stone that causes people to stumble and a rock that makes them fall."

And here's what I really love… and what REALLY WORKS!

Isaiah (still in chapter 8) says: "I will write down all these things as  testimony of what the LORD will do. I will entrust it to my disciples, who will pass it down to future generations. I will wait for the LORD to help us… my only hope is in him…."

As survivor's of sociopathic abuse, we are racing against horses – forces far stronger than we are in our natural resources. We often don't have help because the good people around us are oblivious to the real danger we're in.

What I do know, beyond a shadow of a doubt – from personal experience, and the experiences of others – is that doing what Isaiah teaches really works. We WRITE DOWN our declarations and prayers, based on God's character and nature… and we pray those until they come to pass, even if it means passing it down to our children and their children, if we should die before the prayers are answered.

from Graham Cooke I've learned there are only two questions that really matter:

  • Who is God?
  • Who am I, in the light of the answer to the first question?

The first answer uncovers your true identity in being One with God, as Jesus prayed in John 17; and the second reveals your inheritance. Everything else, including your destiny, unfolds in the light of those two answers. So I write it down… and I decree it… until it happens.

Have you ever written your prayers and declarations, based on God's nature? I'll be share more on this as we go along – thanks so much for being with me today. I really appreciate you!

 

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With all my love,

White Dove

White Dove knows how it feels to lose everything: marriage and family, church and reputation, finances and businesses, and more. Her upcoming, interactive memoir, "On the Way Home," tells the story of how she came to be known as "the most abused woman" her counselors had yet met and how she is learning to navigate to freedom and fullness.  

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Angie August 19, 2018 at 7:02 am

Hi

Thank you for lovingly sharing the road and tools with us.
I am working on my own manifesto. Fascinating that the verses you quote have their counterparts in the book of my faith too.
I received the message to ‘speak it into existence” and I got a voice diary but not used it much. Was journalling and writing out my ideal life story and affirmations and goals daily for a while… I think time is ideal to really work on writing. A run in with a religious organization recently distracted me. I wanted to stay focused on me and my goals and staying in love and gratitude bit a sense of ‘Inhave to fight them’ kept coming up. I guess now I must stay in my self nurturing and living space with God and translate my experiences with them into a more general account deriving lessons and disseminating wider… There was urgency to fightback and not let their word prevail .. they operate solely behind the back and backed off when I went and asked to meet them and discuss anything they might have issue with .. they refuse to talk directly. As I told them, quoting scripture, the believers walk tall and don’t like like rats (paraphrase).

In any case, will work methodically and release all urgency and focus on self nurturing. I guess

Blessings for taking the time to share your journey!!

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White Dove August 19, 2018 at 8:14 am

Whatever we resist persists, keep in mind.
Fighting them directly can empower them, for you are recognizing the enemy has some level of influence on your life.
If you can it’s much better to smile, if need be, or to simply ignore, if possible.
Any contact at all is toxic, so if at all possible, keep them out of your head!

This is just what I’ve learned the hard way, as a survivor, myself.
I’m not a medical expert and this is not counsel… just my own thoughts!

I appreciate you sharing and I would love to hear more of your ongoing story!

Here’s something that may be helpful: http://loveyourstory.org/discovering-original-design/

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Angie August 22, 2018 at 12:36 am

Hi White Dove

Thank you for sharing <3

 

I have now done a lot of work clearing energetic  connections and forgiving etc to detach and get clarity.

I know narcs don't change but any action towards them would be taken as supply and escalate.

These were the owners of my daughter's religious school. The (henpecked) husband was attracted to me, which I noticed and ignored. People do to find me attractive and I have a friendly positive nature with no hidden swords. I avoided all contact with him and yet the wife went on a slander warpath. Unbelievably lots of attempts with magic and rwnndom dude to get me to commit adultery and so be proven evil.  (lady, religious 'teacher' means do not justify ends!!!).  I am an empath and now trust my gut and pulled my daughter out as soon as I noticed the attraction – hostility dynamic and she avoided honest communication when ii trie to speak with her. She roped in previous religious group and commenced covert attacks.  As an empath I could feel everything before it happened. Very intense hatred from her, when I had hoped.she had character to acknowledge I did absolutely nothing. Prayer prevailed and the *extreme* sudden carnal desires and profusion of opportunities also faded away. Only God saved me from that sin, so intense was the magic. I know it was not natural, and the spurt of guys suddenly reaching out was not a coincidence. Just flabbergasted at how far they go… Unbelievable. Strict no contact

 

So happy to have detached and focused on me. The need to fight was probably their reaching out for supply energetically. I will address the truths objectively elsewhere but this is not the time or place. Ignoring them keeps me immune and I need to focus on me right now.

 

Thanks for the link and am reading it all. 

Blessings

 

(Pardon spelling, typing on the phone can be bad for my spelling and grammar sometimes!)

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White Dove August 22, 2018 at 5:49 am

It sounds like you’re in a good place now, not focusing on them anymore.

It’s interesting that you bring up the magic used against you. They needed you to commit sin, so they could justify their poisonous attack against you, as if that could ever justify it. 

The “magic” – I would like to hear more, if you feel inclined, because another reader is also telling me the same thing, and it rings true with my own experience.

I’m so glad you are free and keeping distance!

Thank you for sharing your story 🙂

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Sherri August 28, 2016 at 6:41 pm

Just what I needed. Currently I am the victim of a smear campaign by sibling who is suddenly wanting control of parents finances. I know that I have done nothing wrong and have put others before myself. Very hard to sit back and not react and get angry, but I am learning to wait upon God. The people doing this are active in their church so I feel out numbered, but believe that truth will prevail.  Thank you for this manifesto.

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White Dove August 29, 2016 at 8:10 pm

It's especially unsettling when "church people" behave like this, and so often it is the case. Truth always prevails and love wins… but it can be a very bumpy ride in the meantime. I'm so sorry you are experiencing this. Any experience face-to-face with evil is defiling. I ask God to send true friends who will love you back to life, who will love you no matter what, who will speak the Truth to you when you need to hear it most. 

You're not alone – there are so many situations like this happening to the BEST of God's children. The enemy has ramped up efforts to sabotage us, to make us like him, if he can…. our only weapon of defense and offense is Truth in Love, to be humble, to ask for wisdom, to lay low, to believe we are loved, to keep loving and forgiving when appropriate… to allow Christ to live in us, to be One with Him!

Thank you for being here and sharing, Sherri!

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Sophia November 10, 2016 at 11:14 pm

My sister is doing the same to me, and for the same reason, to control my mother's finances.

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White Dove November 18, 2016 at 7:14 am

This is heartbreaking, Sophia. Know that you are not alone and I hope you will take steps to protect yourself!

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Jo November 3, 2015 at 8:12 pm

Wow.  Thank you so much.  It is so refreshing to find Christian inspiration related to this topic.  I am dealing with someone at a bible college who is gunning for my job.  The amazing thing is how strong the Lord is in me.  I have never in my life felt as though I can relate to the psalms than dealing with this Narc.  He is fighting for me!

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White Dove November 4, 2015 at 9:30 am

I'm happy you have found encouragement, Jo, for it must be terribly frustrating to work in a Christian environment where you are threatened by a co-worker. I pray the Lord exposes the darkness all around you and floods your workplace with His Light!

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White Dove November 21, 2014 at 6:08 am

A prayer I learned from Graham Cooke, that is really effective:

"Father, I'm weary of being misunderstood. I'm tired of the ungracious scrutiny of others. Hide me, dear Lord, in the Secret Place of your presence. Keep me from people who speak about me, but not to me. I am helpless against the riptide of their words. I cannot defend myself. Refresh my heart to look on them with love.

I accept this part of your cross. Change my heart to speak with your love and sculpt my life through these situations. Let their hard words chisel away my roughness, forming Christ."

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Jo November 3, 2015 at 8:13 pm

Amen sister.  Ditto.

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WILLIAM O'TOOLE October 16, 2013 at 4:28 pm

Hey Sue.

This reminds me of the time when I was going to an Alphaa Course, or The Alpha Course which I  guess is like a 6 week course where you meet up in church once a week and learn about god, Kinda like a crash course but with grown up who help you 'Find Your Way' You know it's strange no matter what happens in life, marriage, divorce, half a dozen kids, bankruptcy, addiction…Through ALL these things god STILL watches over you doesn't he? I am not dependant on things.. I know when my time comes I will meet my maker.. How will he judge me? 

 

Thanks for your message 🙂

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White Dove October 16, 2013 at 6:40 pm

Hi William,

It's good to see you again! I remember the Alpha Courses, although I never took one of the classes. It is amazing, isn't it, that no matter where we are in life, our Father is always with us, looking out for our best interests! 

Thanks for stopping by – I hope all is well with you and your family 🙂

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Bonnie a.k.a. LadyBlogger October 16, 2013 at 12:32 pm

This was interesting to read, thank you.

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White Dove October 16, 2013 at 1:08 pm

Thank you for visiting, Bonnie… and thanks, also, for the Facebook friend invitation. I look forward to getting to know you 🙂

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Tracy October 16, 2013 at 12:31 pm

Hi Susan! This is my first time visiting your blog. I'm very interested in coming back to read more. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and insights. I've not been the victim of abuse, but I know people who are. I'm sure it's helpful to victims of abuse to know they're not alone, and to see people such as yourself who have become victorious over the past. Blessings to you!

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White Dove October 19, 2013 at 1:50 pm

Thanks for coming by and introducing yourself, Tracy! I look forward to getting to know you. Many blessings – have a great weekend! 🙂

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