God's Ways & Means are Far Beyond Human Imagination
By: White Dove
Your enemy's first strategy is to isolate you. Smear campaigns, gaslighting, or even moving you to a remote location away from family and friends are predictable patterns of an abuser.
Sometimes your friends and family are quite near, even in your home, but they don't really see you or comprehend that your heart is smashed to pieces by someone who appears to them as a great guy.
That is how many people find themselves on my little webpage here, because they have no one else who understands they are dying inside. To feel all alone and misunderstood knocks the wind out of you. You feel like you've fallen on the battlefield and no one sees you need help. They blindly pass you by.
Today I want to share with you how God has reached me in those dark, forgotten places of lost hope, even despair… the times when I was physically isolated and far away from any type of support.
Help is always on the way and never far. Even if you don't have a counselor, pastor, or friend nearby who sees the deep anguish of sociopathic abuse God has ways of reaching you through the invisible realm of spirit… the Kingdom fo Heaven is "at hand" – Jesus' says.
In dreams and visions, which seem little more than the mind's imagination, both angels and people come alongside us to tenderly minister in ways far above ordinary ways and means.
I will share one such dream, out of many such dreams I've had.
In the dream a chiropractor was giving me normal adjustments. He was actually a pastor who I trusted from years ago, who I genuinely trusted and respected. After the normal adjustments he sits down and has me lean my back against him. Gently he opens up a pocket in my back that is full of infection, draining it out of my body into a pan on the floor. It is then that I realize he is not just a chiropractor or minister, he is Heaven's messenger sent to heal me of a disease no human doctor could have helped to relieve… because of my isolation.
After the procedure is done I rest – such a deep rest as I cannot remember having before. The rest is so profoundly peaceful and deep that when I wake up from the dream It feels like I'm a new person.
In other dreams I have been laid out on the battlefield when a medic arrives to find nearly all the blood drained from my body. I'm hovering above my body, watching and listening. "She needs a blood transfusion!" shouts the medic. I wake up inside of my body feeling re-energized, hopeful, and able to make it through another day.
The battle you are facing is real, my friend. If left unattended you may find yourself battling diseases or even death. Face-to-face encounters with evil leave wounds. Our bodies and minds are not designed to host evil in any way, shape, or form. When you are married to a person who has been overtaken by evil you are daily being drained of life force. They are emotional vampires.
People wonder why we don't get out… most likely you know why. There are so many reasons we stay, including economic dependency, children, church, and enormous pressures that no one else sees.
The right time will come when you are able to escape. But while you are enduring, in the midst of it, just know you are NEVER alone, ever… and that God has ways and means to help you that are far beyond human imagination.
God wants to be your hero. Trust Him to deliver you, one step at a time.
I'm here for you, too, my friend… you are never alone! Help is on the way.
With all my love,
White Dove knows how it feels to lose everything: marriage and family, church and reputation, finances and businesses, and more. Her upcoming, interactive memoir, "On the Way Home," tells the story of how she came to be known as "the most abused woman" her counselors had yet met and how she is learning to navigate to freedom and fullness.
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