Reader’s Write

There will be “good” and “bad” days, but in reality, all days are simply days of grace. The BEST writers confide to us that 9 out of 10 days they feel they have written poorly. We just keeping adding to the soup, whether we think it’s good, poor, or brilliant.

Be prepared to hit delete – more than you like. Be prepared to hate what you’ve written – more than you wish. Be prepared to love what comes out of this adventure!

Learn to trust the soup, as Steven Pressfield, calls the art of writing. It’s the PROCESS – what I call the adventure – that creates your final product. It’s just going to be what it is. And you need not make any apologies! You are writing from your heart and just being real. Don’t be afraid you might offend someone. You probably will.

Write to heal. Write to move forward. It’s your right to be real, to be well, to be whole.

“Everybody is a story. When I was a child, people sat around kitchen tables and told their stories. We don’t do that so much anymore. Sitting around the table telling stories is not just a way of passing time. It is the way the wisdom gets passed along. The stuff that helps us to live a life worth remembering.” ~ Remen

The following stories, essays, and journal entries are samples of the ingredients in my own soup pot. I’ve included them here, as a result of a couple years’ worth of collecting, to demonstrate that memoir-writing is done one little piece at a time. Think in terms of 500-1000 words for each story.

Let’s stir your Pot by reading some sample stories from Team Family Online readers!

By: Sharon O'Day "Walking with the Wise" Series of Life Stories! Okay, I use the word “girl” loosely.  I mean anyone of the female gender between 21 and 65.  Or older … And I’m not talking mascara.  Or Tampax®.  Or Spanx®.  Or a Cinnamon Dolce Latte. I’m talking about the real foundations of life.  Not […]

{ 2 comments }

But God! By: Murray Lincoln: Misty Hollow Woodcarver I am a Pastor – now retired after 35 years. In my 64th year and 2nd month there wasn’t enough money coming in to pay the salaries of our staff. So they fired me! I felt like crap!!! Moving from a highly respected, ordained minister, trusted by […]

{ 15 comments }

"A Psychopath's Confession" I was born in East Germany, before the Wall came down. When I was 9-months old my biological father packed me in a suitcase and smuggled me into West Germany, depositing me into an orphanage. At 18-months, I was adopted by a high level US military man. My adopted mom suffered a […]

{ 22 comments }

Misty Hollow – My Magical Place Guest writer of the week – "Walking with the Wise" Series By: Murray Lincoln, the Woodcarver of Misty Hollow "Where’re you going Grandpa?” My short legs followed his stride through the tall golden grass out past Grandma’s garden. The grass was dry and shimmered in the sun. It led […]

{ 9 comments }

By: Linda Honea In the "Write to Freedom" series, where readers become writers! Editor's Note: I love it when friends send me pieces of their life stories! We can see the "Divine Thread" as my friend, Linda, calls it, which weaves our lives together in ways that leave us in awe! Is it amazing or […]

{ 14 comments }

What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? By: Ronke Alao Our parents are usually our first teachers. They teach us to talk, eat, walk and brush our teeth. Some of these things, we learned not because they organized a class and  taught us how to walk. We learned mostly by watching them. If you […]

{ 14 comments }

  Grandma Died Still Teaching Me Lessons   From the series, "Write to Freedom – Mini Memoir eCourse"   Life Story Writing Tip: None of enjoy bad news, but our response to bad news can lead to our greatest life transformation. In today's story, Carla Gardiner shows us how, telling her story through the inner […]

{ 7 comments }

My Pioneering Family By: Victoria Gazeley I’m not a pioneer woman. I’m not even really a homesteader.  Not in the historical sense of the word, anyway. Lately I’ve been thinking a lot about the pioneering women in my lineage.  It goes without saying that my homesteading journey is different than that of the pioneer women […]

{ 5 comments }

  Discovering the Source of My Passion by denny hagel   Growing up my family always seemed to be a bit different than everyone else’s. Not in a bad way, actually in a very good way. It was different in a way that I couldn’t define in a brief explanation nor could I sufficiently describe […]

{ 17 comments }

  My Journey to Wellness   By: Terressa Cortez   Two years ago my health was at its all-time worst. I was overweight and feeling it’s effects throughout my body. I was tired, my joints were stiff when I stood up it was painful to get moving. The doctor, after endless tests and visits, diagnosed […]

{ 24 comments }

Tiger Mother the Book and My Tiger Mother By Claudia Looi Jane When I met Jane, she was ten years old. A straight A student. She speaks English and Mandarin fluently. She was only allowed to speak English in school and Mandarin at home. After school, she did her homework, than the extra Math homework. […]

{ 14 comments }

By: Mandy B. Anderson Web: mandybanderson.com We are warriors. We are brave when others are in despair. We are courageous while getting poked at, pounded on, and having to be hooked up to odd looking machines for 2-4 hours a day. We are optimistic when those around us start to dwell on sadness and pain. […]

{ 8 comments }